WHY FEMALES ARE ATTENTION SEEKER?

Attention seeking is a personality trait in which an individual seeks attention from others in order to obtain validation from them and most females are seen to be attention seekers. Some of the signs to identify an attention seeker woman are there:

High pitched voice

Loud laughter

Excessive display of affection

Obsession with taking pictures

Females who are not self-confident need constant attention and validation from the people around them.
Females who are not self-confident need constant attention and validation from the people around them.

From an early age, this trait develops in a girl as she tries to compete with her siblings in order to gain her father attention and then as she grows up this trait becomes prominent in her personality In high school girls tend to act and dress in a certain way to get attention so that they may get popular in school. Attention seeker females tend to brag about themselves, they think that they are the center of attention and they will only talk about themselves. They do not know the art of standing alone as they always want a bunch of people noticing them.

One of the main reasons for attention-seeking in females is due to a lack of self-esteem. Females who are not self-confident need constant attention and validation from the people around them. They need constant reassurance from people in their personal life as well as in their social media life.

Another reason for such behavior could be childhood trauma, abandonment, or abuse from a parent which may result in an attention-seeking clingy type of behavior. Such females do not know their self-worth and are internally broken, so they seek attention from their relationship due to any past trauma.

If an attention seeker female is in a relationship, she would constant reassurance from her partner and would want all of his attention but if on the other hand, he is talking with someone else she will get jealous instantly and would start complaining.

An attention seeker female is always complaining about her life and is never satisfied with anything around her.
An attention seeker female is always complaining about her life and is never satisfied with anything around her.

A narcissistic female would also need constant validation in order to feel good. They are high maintenance. They crave for compliments from other people for their reassurance whether they get a new job or a new haircut. They would exaggerate about things and would make a big deal out of anything just to get noticed. An attention seeker female is always complaining about her life and is never satisfied with anything around her. She will argue for no good reason just to gain attention whether it is positive or negative.

The whole life of an attention seeker female revolves around doing things just for the sake of approval and praise from other people. Such females are shallow from inside they do not know their self-worth and they are always struggling to get people's attention. The source of happiness in their life is this validation from the people because without it they cannot survive. They will ruin their life just for the sake of their so-called psychological satisfaction of getting attention from people.

If you do not agree with my thoughts, do not kill me. I honor females as much as every sensible mind on this planet earth does. -Arfat Ali Junejo

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